Before I moved to Slovakia I worked for a crazy communist (Inside the PVDA, a communist sect ) newspaper in Brussels, the capital of Europe. The experience was a two-edged sword. The party line was boring and dogmatic, and there were no concrete plans to change anything for the better, there was also nepotism, infighting, and a lot of hypocrisy. On the other hand it did teach me a lot about how society works, how politics work, how newspapers get to print their articles and a little bit about today’s economy and dogmatic ideologies. I’m grateful for the experience, but am also glad I got out of it.

Now my career is a ménage à trois, I’m a therapist, interpreter and writer. In blossoming Bratislava, baby!

I love my work! And I wish everybody would have a job they love, we would all be better off.

I blog every day in the hopes of boosting your happiness just a tiny little bit: #thrive. Be all you can be

The values I love the most are genuine humbleness, fairness, self-reflection, empathy and mutual respect. I have some sympathy for arrogant people, as arrogance is just a way to mask very deep and unsettling insecurities. I used to be very arrogant myself and I know what kind of scary destination it inevitably leads to, until you become much more modest. You meet a lot of arrogance, even on Quora, especially in the comments, I always answer respectfully, since arrogant people need love even more than others. I love kindness and if I have a religion it can be summed up as the daily practice of kindness, but it’s best not to mistake it for weakness.

Some Quora answers that caught a bit of attention:

• How do I get rid of negative thinking?

• What could Hitler have done to avoid losing World War II?

• Have you ever witnessed anyone throw away their life?

• What did you assume was exaggerated until you experienced it?

• What’s the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever said in a foreign language by accident?

• What did you learn too late in life?

This is how I prefer to spend a huge chunk of my day, as a therapist, listening to people unburdening themselves. No teddybears were hurt taking this picture. When I’m not doing this, I’m probably teaching languages, writing, or spending time with friends and family.

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This is one of the books I’ve written, The Authenticity Diary, this is the Slovak version:

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I also have a slight obsession with the American Civil War and the Confederacy. This is a picture of my Civil War reading list.

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Thanks to the support and encouragement of the incomparable Belgian academic, professor Gert Buelens, I have the chance to turn this life-long fascination for the ‘irrepressible’ conflict into a phd.

And last but not least, meet my wife, the amazing Slovak woman, Zuzana Pistova. Artist and kindergarten teacher.

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Best wishes,

William

Bratislava live