This an article that digs a little deeper and it is SATIRICAL, a small minority of people that lack a sense of humor fail to see this. If you want a very practical article, check out our ’30 tips to date a Slovak woman’
‘We have the most beautiful women.’
It’s 2005 and this is the very first time in my life I have heard a Slovak girl say anything.
We’re in Ljubljana for a summer course of Slovene, and there’s a colorful international gathering.
The teacher has just asked us: ‘What is special about your country?’
And the Slovak girl in the group says, without blinking, that her country has the most beautiful women.
At the time I thought that was a bit odd, I was even mildly shocked.I’m highly allergic to any sign of arrogance, but there was not a speck of arrogance to what this girl was saying. She said it as though it were the most established fact in the history of facts.
At the same time I thought that it couldn’t possibly be true. Women are beautiful everywhere.
At the time I had absolutely no idea I would one day go and live in Slovakia. I think I wasn’t really planning to leave Belgium behind at the time. Perhaps I had some vague idea about living in the US, Slovenia or Russia, who knows, I don’t remember, but her answer got stuck in my head.
Is it true?
Not completely, no. Ukranian, Russian and Serbian women are also total knock-outs. But yes, Slovak women certainly make the top five, easily.
And yes, of course I can’t say anything truly valid about some 3,000,000 individuals, but, I don’t know, this is based on my observations and if you don’t like it, then don’t fvcking read it, ok? Thank you.
Here goes, in general:
They are quite dominant, so if you want to get them, you will have to be more dominant than they are.
They are wired to be attracted to troglodyte macho behavior.
A big car and an expensive suit will attract them more easily than anything else.
The more books you read, the less chances you have with them. Stop reading immediately, cancel your subscription to DennikN, SME and Tyzden (= the so called quality press here in Slovakia) and get a gym subscription. Preferably from the fitness chain called Golem so you can learn about maffia practices whilst pumping iron. Here’s the website: http://www.golemclub.sk/
The more you actually listen to them, the less chances you have with them. Interrupt them, don’t let them finish sentences. Use their insecurities against them. Basically, grab them by the hair and mop the floor with them. They’ll be grateful for the favor.
They are mostly looking for a steady provider. I asked a 30-year old woman what she looks for in a guy and she says: if he’s paying of a mortgage, because that shows responsibility and a long-term commitment.
It helps if you consume a lot of alcohol, because this will remind them of their father. On a subconscious level they are extremely sad for not being able to connect with their father, so the more you look like their father the better.
Feelings scare them. Their fathers TOTALLY SUCKED at showing feelings, so if a guy shows feelings this confuses the woman and she has no idea what to do with that, it’s not on the charts of what a male should be like.
It helps if you are big. You can be fat, you just need to be big, not so much muscled, just big. These women are still looking for superficial signs of security.
Slovak society is all about appearances. How things and people look are more important than how things and people are in reality.
This is true for most societies of course. Facts do not matter. It’s the display of confident body language that matters. That’s why Donald Trump is the president of the United States and Bernie Sanders isn’t. Donald Trump provides confidence (rooted in lies, but that doesn’t matter) and Bernie Sanders provides hard facts. Bullshit, it’s all about how you make people feel, nothing else. People don’t care about facts, they want you to make them feel good about themselves.
The more you tell them, the more you will repel them. Shut up and let them chatter away.
They are looking for someone they can introduce to their parents and lady friends and be praised for.
They want to feel small, so insulting them actually helps. (Yes, they mistake feeling feminine for being dominated).
Yes, they look good. They have deep eyes that speak of thousands of years of suffering and surviving against all odds. They have a cold blooded look about them. They look a little like mermaids.
Check out 30 practical tips to date Slovak women. You’ll learn a lot about how to deal with them.
They have an uncanny ability to dress themselves in a smashing way, some more than others.
I suppose hunting clothes takes them a lot of time, energy and money, but looking good is part of what fuels them.
They are often very slender, have a good hip to waist ratio, partly because of genetics, partly because of the eating habits in this country. The heaviest meal is served around noon, and is always preceded by soup, which fills. They also work a lot and are more stressed than they ever realize, which burns calories. Most of them obsess about their weight and bodies.
They are extremely family oriented, they are much more keen to have children of their own than western women. They are looking for a mute patriarch they can cook for.
They want you to bring in cash, but in return they will wash your socks and they will even bake ‘kolaciky’ (biscuits, tartlets, etc) for you.
These women are uncommonly afraid of being perceived as abnormal, so the more of a walking, predictable cliché you are, the better.
Alternate between wearing sportsy clothes and tuxedos. You don’t have to display any real taste in clothing, because then they’ll just assume you’re gay, but just be very typical and try to be as unoriginal as possible. You have to fit a certain common denominator. Always have her parents in mind. How will it look when she takes you home and introduces you to her parents?
Do not learn to speak Slovak. This will diminish your chances. Why? Because it’s a sign of modesty, of making a step towards them, if you want them you have to display superiority by refusing to speak their language. They are very proud of their language and like to pretend it’s the most difficult language in the world. It most certainly is not, but they like to believe that. They also think that Slovakia is worthless, so if you are willing to learn Slovak you must be less than worthless, and these women are looking for value and superiority in a man. Do not learn Slovak if you want to seduce a Slovak girl.
Actually, DO NOT MAKE ANY EFFORT WHATSOEVER.
Remember, their fathers did not make any effort in the house hold either, these women are looking for someone to serve, avoid all signs that you are willing to serve them in any way. You’ll just confuse them otherwise.
The older generation (40 years old and above) is slightly different and often a lot more intellectual. Under communism people read a lot more books than they do know and a lot of slightly older Slovak women have read lots of Russian classics. This does something to a person of course and they are quite profound, sullen and mostly unhappy, but there’s a philosophical quality to them that western women in the same age category do not have. Older Slovak women can be very highly educated and very well read and uncompromised by capitalist propaganda which leads women to invest more in their bra collection than their brain.
In general women display very little initiative, but they will almost always say yes if you invite them to go and grab a coffee, even if they have a boyfriend or are married. What they look for on the surface in men, ultimately does not satisfy them, so, they will not want a relationship with you if you don’t provide the stereotype they need, but they will be interested in your being different, in you challenging them intellectually and giving them attention. They will not want to take you home, but they will appreciate the attention and the conversation.
In general the women are much more interesting, considerate, cultivated and thoughtful than the men. The men do make more money than the women, not because they are more talented or work harder, but because they display more confidence, but it’s the women that are the pillars of society.
The women themselves are very aware of the fact that women here are witty, charming, diplomatic, well-educated, etc. This makes them very insecure, because they think a guy can meet a knock-out woman every 5 minutes if he just goes and walks down Obchodna street. The men are spoiled and are mostly blind to the high quality of women in this country. Slovak men prefer booze, mountain climbing, the company of other men, smoking and talking (not actually playing) sports over women. Slovak men are – in my opinion- among the most boring in the world, but they are not as stupid or as disgusting as British, Russian or German tourists for example, compared to these they are actually polite, well-behaved, relatively modest and calm (sedated?).
IMPORTANT PS
So, THIS IS A SATIRICAL article. I have a wonderful Slovak wife myself, see other posts on this blog. She is totally amazing. She is not like this, her friends are not like this, her sister is not like this, none of her family are like this, none of my students are like this. I wrote this piece because me and my friends do bump into the type of women described here, which can get on our nerves from time to time. This is a minority for sure. This is -sadly- the most popular article on this website, something I never expected. There are much more interesting articles on this website. But apparently people google articles like this.
Almost all Slovak women I know personally thought this article was funny and well written. Some have shared it or sent it to their friends. This also -partly- explains why it’s the most popular article on this website. Only one was a little annoyed by it, but she is the only one I know personally who is kinda like the women described here. In Slovak we say: ‘trafena husa zagaga’. You only really get mad if something is kinda true, otherwise you shrug it off as bullshit and you just ignore it.
People who wish to comment can do so, this website allows you to comment anonymously, so even cowards can comment, we are very open to comments, even poorly written comments, they always add something in the end. We choose not to filter comments, because most people who comment on this website take their time to say something constructive.
Final word: this article describes a tiny minority of Slovak women who are particularly materialistic and obsessed by their looks. They are a minority, but they definitely exist and it’s hard not to notice them. If you read this article closely, and also read other posts, like ‘a classroom full of Slovak women’, you will quickly see that the people behind this website are very postive about Slovak women, at least three Slovak women actively help to make this website possible.
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Complete bull shit! I have a Slovak girlfriend. I live with her, I have met her friends and family and you sir are talking utter bollocks…. that is all.
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Thanks for the comment. I see you haven’t taken the time to read other posts. This is a post that generalizes the behavior of a minority of very visible women here. My wife is Slovak, she’s also not like that, and none of her friends are either, plus I teach lots of Slovak women (see other posts) and they are also not like that. It’s something like satire written in a moment that I kept bumping into this particular type, and it also definitely exists, but it’s a minority. I salute your eloquence, ok, no, I don’t, for obvious reasons, but thanks for the comment. I admit I was overgeneralizing. Bullshit is one word. Also thanks for having the courage to comment under your real name. Best of luck, William. PS Quite a few of the nice kind of Slovak women thought this was a funny post, they have a great sense of humor in Slovakia, you must be from somewhere else, but that’s ok too
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Dude. On behalf of the Slovak people, could you please remove this? I mean I know that you mean no harm and this represents a small minority, however let’s face it. The average internet user will stop midway in your article or skim right through. As a result, they will have a completely negative view of Slovak women and consider them as you said obsessed on materialistic things. It’s already bad enough for us that the foreign press usually places Slovakia in a non-positive light. You probably live in Bratislava. There you will find girls of such caliber, however travel to Banska Bystrica, Trencin or even Zilina, and it’s a whole different story. Thank you.
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I will read your comment if you use your real name. Thank you
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I thought this was hilarious. I was born in the u.s And live there but my entire family is slovakian so I come and visit twice a year with my family. I’m actually here on vacation now.(sadly I leave in two days). When I read this I thought it was great. This is obviously a joke and fairly innacurate for most women here. But I found it hilarious because I thought back to all those women you see walking in Presov or Kosice or anywhere for that matter on an average Tuesday dressed up like they’re going to a wedding. And when u mentioned them making kolaciky I smiled. I read some of these articles and it sucks because of you go to other websites I’ve seen people bash slovakia and it’s people yet they weren’t even there for a week and didn’t leave Bratislava. It’s just nice to see someone joking around who actually knows something about this country and speaks some truth. I did enjoy the read thanks!
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Oh and that anonymous guy who asked to remove the article. Listen man there’s no reason to be honest not too many people ouut of some kind of slovakian ties are going to read this. The country is small. When I mention my nationality is the u.s they have no idea it’s a country. They say, “what? Slovenia?” Or “oh Czechoslovakia” I know to most people it doesn’t matter because Czechs and slovaks still think of themselves as just Czechoslovakians and the whole split Doesnt mean shit to them but like it’s sad that the only reason they know slovakia is because of the Czech republic. I’m telling u man slovakia got the shit end of the stick in the divorce. We’re paying child support, alimony, and they took half our shit XD
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http://www.returnofkings.com/102374/why-you-shouldnt-go-to-bratislava-slovakia
That’s the article that bothered me. Full of innacuracies and pointless criticisms.
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Hi Erik, thank you for your wonderful comments. We should have gone to grab a cup of coffee when you were here 🙂 It’s obviously a satirical piece, looking back I would say that perhaps one in twenty Slovak young ladies are like this. When I wrote this I had lived in this country for only about six months, and they were one of the first things I spotted that were radically different than the way things are done in Belgium. Lately I mostly spot the women who are totally not like this stereotype. Then again, it’s winter, and these make-up dolls on stelts tend to be more visible in summer 😉 When will you be back in Slovakia?
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How is it that so many men, people seem to know what information is incorrect about Slovak women? Not liking a comment or criticism does not equate that person’s experience being wrong. Grow up, grow some real balls and don’t be so damn sensitive. Remember the Slovak man is the most masculine, bravest man in the world ( oops, sorry for the criticism )
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There are over 700 articles on PEP talk, yet people only comment on posts on Slovak women or sex. Says a lot about people, doesn’t it. Also when people write emails via the blog, nine times out of ten it’s about women. Clearly, it’s the most popular topic. Unless the 690 articles that are not about Slovak women are total crap, that’s also an option. That or people just don’t care. If we’d want to have a super popular blog, we would just have to do daily video interviews with attractive Slovak women. Could be a real cash cow. What a pity that we blog about other topics as well, really not a smart move of us. What do you think?
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I looooove this blog. Love it, love it, love it! I love the emotions it evokes first and foremost within myself. Whenever I get a rise out of an article, upon agreement or agreement to disagree, I examine why it caused a spark within. Being middle-aged does not mean that I know everything about everything, in fact, it could mean that I might close my opened-mind a bit. Instead, I am learning still that I do learn just as much from negative as I do from positive experiences. I do learn much more about myself when I can listen to criticism without internalizing it.
Now, my experience with women in general is similar to the experiences I have had with a few various nationalities of women and men for that matter. Since I have been living here as a foreigner I can say I still have not figured out the mentality of the Slovak women I have dated AND yes, I have asked each one them. So, for me I have been amazed at the PHYSICAL beauty, the pride in keeping themselves well-groomed and very feminine and looking lady-like and being well-educated(academically).
After my divorce; and from my experience I would never date or marry another Slovak female as I have not met one that has meshed, matched or complimented my mentality. I would not want in the future my child to be raised by such narrowly closed-minded, intolerant and unrepentant women that I have dated. I have not met others, though no two were the same. The saying I’ve heard since residing here is, “Slovak women are for Slovak men.” From my experience, I have to agree a bit.
But I would not be the type of person to tell others not to pursue Slovak women and so on due to my experiences. I do find it offensive when someone is offended by another’s unpleasant experience. Let people express their experiences. It happened we may or may not like it but fact is fact for the person who has lived their encounter.
What do I think ( of the Slovak women I have dated )?
1. Beautiful to look at, fucked up in the head and can’t be un-fucked.
2. Beautiful, no real deep underlying substance of life. Everything appears to be a duty to tradition and rules..all the time.
3. Beautiful, but CAN NOT STOP gossiping about anyone at anytime all the time.
4. Beautiful, but do not catch them lying, conniving, and being dishonest because THEY WILL NEVER admit that ANYTHING WRONG was done on their part. All of their unpleasant actions are categorized under; YOU provoked ME.
5. Beautiful, they put the home, motherhood and the family first. ( see not all is negative )
6. Beautiful, loyal to family.
7. Beautiful, the nice ones (personality) really stand out but not enough of those.
8. Beautiful, very good to children.
9. Beautiful.
10. Beautiful.
Tyler
P.S. Those reading whom might say this guy has had some unfortunate experiences, might also be the same to say, “Well he should have chosen better”. ( LOL, OMG, I know it is coming or at one will think it.) I know it because of my experiences.
I wish you a Happy Easter holiday, sir. Please keep being you and writing some GOOD, different shit. You are better than CNN.
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All ten points match my own experience and those of my expat friends here in Slovakia. If I wouldn’t be with my wife, I’m not sure if I would seek a new steady relationship. I have the best wife I could ever hope to find, but I abhor monogamy, which she knows of course, as she reads everything on this blog. She has an ‘it’s illegal, but we’ll tolerate it’ policy towards it. Sometimes they surprise, this morning I had a group of Slovak women, all in their twenties am guessing, and they were really funny, they really said some clever, sarcastic things. And we played Machiavelli, a card game that they got really into. Today all Slovak women I met were exceedingly nice to me, except for, because she knows I like her, she targeted me throughout the game for example. Why were they exceedingly nice? I’m suspecting it was for no other reason than that I was wearing a shirt, a leather jacket and looked taller because of shoes I don’t usually wear. The non cynical part of me, yes, that exists, tries to tell me it’s because I was in a good mood, and they could sense that, plus they have holidays tomorrow and spring is edging closer. What certainly stands out, for me, is the emphasis on tradition and motherhood. Their lives seem scripted. But to give this a positive twist for once (am telling you, am in a rare good mood today), this does seem to counter depression, they have a rule book, if they just follow it, they’re fine. In the Netherlands you have way more life style choices, which makes it harder for people to choose a path. I enjoy reading all your comments and thanks for the compliments. An irresponsible amount of time goes into this blog, made possible by my wife, Zuzana Pistova, the walking paradoxical blend of loving some traditions and complete disdain for some other traditions. Oh, and she loves Fight Club.
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Great fun article William, I am moving to Nitra soon and have just become single after a lot of years, amicably I might add, but I am restarting my life as single man with a lot of life experience. I will be likely to meet a lot of ladies and , for my part, I hope over the 45 year old bracket. I will be interested to find out how things pan out. TBH, I have become disillusioned with the one sidedness of English relationships which are shaped by dogma and Hello magazine. I look forward to the adventure and though I have lived in Czechia this will be my first time interacting with Slovakian women. I did have a friend with a lovely Slovak girlfriend and he was a total bell-end but seemed to have gotten away with it, perhaps she was more like the sub 30 group to which your piece was dedicated. Wish me luck, I think I might need it 🙂
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Bullshit 🙂
They are quite dominant, so if you want to get them, you will have to be more dominant than they are.
They are wired to be attracted to troglodyte macho behavior.
A big car and an expensive suit will attract them more easily than anything else.
The more books you read, the less chances you have with them. Stop reading immediately, Interrupt them, don’t let them finish sentences. Use their insecurities against them. Basically, grab them by the hair and mop the floor with them. They’ll be grateful for the favor.
Are you serious about it !!? It seems like I’m not slovak…
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1. Women fail to describe what really attracts them in reality. They have an idea about what attracts them, but that is usually very different from what actually attracts them. This is one of the first things any seduction handbook tells you, do not listen to what women say about the kind of guy they look for, pay attention to what kind of guy they actually fall for. Hint: it’s not the nice, smart, bookish guy 🙂 2. There are exceptions of course, but in general Slovak women are rather primitive and react to basic things, mostly signs of social status or a stereotypical image of what masculinity looks like 3. Most men I know confirm what is in this article 4. My Slovak wife is the exact opposite of what is described in this article, but she’s truly exceptional 5. You can think this is bullshit 6. Why are you reading this? Are you trying to date Slovak women? How many have you dated to come to your conclusions? 7. We got many reactions on this article, at first we thought we overdid perhaps, but then, considering everything, this is pretty accurate. Especially foreign men with lots of experience in this country confirm that this is true for a lot of Slovak women, especially if they are very beautiful and did not need to invest in anything outside of their looks to ‘make it’ in the world 🙂
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I think that your observations skills are great and quite right (and not just in this article).. I would even say this applies to many
people not just a minority.. as a Slovak woman, I can relate to most of this but was lucky to experience some other more open-minded western cultures that make me feel more at ease.. most of the Slovak guys are boring that’s true, people somehow lack depth in here.. materialistic values are prominent but hopefully will change with time as much of this can be attributed to our history and economy rather than our genes.. ( although there is a famous, more than 200 years old poem called ‘Slovaci’ from Jonas Zaborsky where the author compares Slovaks to sheep and when you read it it still seems so actual).. People might be less philosophical in here because they living conditions have been hard for many years, then of course communism and lack of freedom of expression and identity led to lack of questioning and analytical thinking and curiosity maybe? and because of that they might seem more simple (or primitive as some commenters say).. They don’t know much about outside world because travelling was not possible for older generation so there was no opportunity to broaden our minds and the younger people are still just a product of their somehow limited parents.. The lack of social security and state support also doesn’t help us to feel free, open and ready to explore (taking a gap year for example.. ), many girls try to find a man instead as decent life on single average salary is impossible… society is very homogenous so u can’t learn much about different people, view points etc.. Anyway, I see lots of young people with some experience from abroad being more modern already, so their minds are flexible and in the end of that day it’s all about the experience. You westerners were lucky for not having your heads affected by years of communism 😋
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OMG this Totally Totally true :)) )))
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-:) I invite you to read in slovak or in french https://www.aneries-sur-les-femmes.fr
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Am reading an interview with you in SME. What was your real motivation to write this play?
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