- Many women find it extremely erotic and totally empowering to fuck a man with a strapon. This is also called ‘pegging’. One of the things they like about it is that the man surrenders to her and lets out moans he never produces when he is the penetrating partner. Such the sheer power rush can bring women to the brink of orgasm.
- Forbidding a man to ejaculate at the risk of punishment if he ignores the command. This can be combined with tying up his balls so that ejaculating will be rather unpleasant if he doesn’t manage to forego his orgasm.
- You can also use the strapon to make him kneel in front of you and give you a blowjob. In some ways this can feel even more empowering than only pegging him.
- Make him lick you while you are watching the hottest porn you can find. Of course, if you enjoy porn occasionally, not every woman does.
- As mentioned in the previous post: making him wear a chastity cage. This comes with many benefits. A woman who becomes a key holder will permanently boost her self-confidence and feelings of empowerment. The man will also feel more satisfied when he has been tamed by a woman in total control of his ability to orgasm.
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