Am never happier than when I am performing intense cunnilingus on the woman I desire. And I wonder why this is such a strong feeling for me, it might very well be the most essential emotion for me. But why?

I will quote from the book ‘Beyond Freud’, page 99

‘In Klein’s framework, sexuality is about love, destructiveness, and reparation. Men and women are seen as deeply concerned about the balance between their own ability to love and to hate, about their capacity to keep their objects alive, both their relationships to others as real objects and their internal objects, their inner sense of goodness and vitality.

Klein viewed sexual intercourse as a highly dramatic arena in which both one’s impact on the other and the quality of one’s own essence are exposed and on the line.

The ability to arouse and satsify the other represents one’s own reparative capacities; to give enjoyment and pleasure suggests that one’s love is stronger than one’s hate. The ability to be aroused and satisfied by the other suggests that one is alive, that one’s internal objects are flourishing.’

It’s about feeling alive, mattering to someone I deeply desire and adore, being able to give pleasure, connecting with someone, making sure that in old age you will have the memory of having lived, it’s even about making the world a better place because a sexually satisfied woman is so generous, so giving, so life confirming, sexually satisfied women become magnetic and healers.

Save the world, lick pussy.

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