This site is many things to many different people. It can be a blog about living authentically. A site about American politics. A blog about Slovak women. A blog about Slovak culture or Belgian culture or western culture. At times it's a blog about the economics of every day life. It's a site about parenting. A blog about literature. A blog about psychology. There are blogs about dating, blogs about travel, blogs about money, blogs about teaching, blogs about dating Slavic girls, blogs about Palestine. It's a site for leftists. It's a site for progressives. A site for femdom lovers. A site for vagitarians. A site for language teachers. A site for people with a huge libido and a big heart. A site for go-getters. In a way also a site for entrepreneurs. Maybe it's easier to describe what the people who regularly visit have in common. The readers of this site tend to be seekers. They tend to be people who are a bit dissatisfied with life and are looking for more, not just for themselves but for humanity in general. It's a blog for people looking for peace, love, empathy, solidarity and yes, also a good dose of excitement. Whatever brought you here, know that you are welcome.
Travel. Don’t stay in Slovakia. Look around. Explore. Find the place where you like it best
Meet people and have a few real friends. Real friends are rare, but I believe you can find some
Have sex with A LOT of women before you settle down. I mean, be really fucking sure you settle down with a woman with whom you have the best possible sex, because sex is the basis, really.
Go into psychotherapy BEFORE any issues develop
Ask me whatever you want to ask me before am gone
Make yourself happy, not me or anyone else
Make money doing something you love
Learn to cooperate with people as effectively as possible. I myself am such an Einzelgänger that being independent is my only option. On the one hand that is liberating, I don’t have to wonder about any other options, but it’s also limiting. I hope you will have many more options.
Explore the past of your family and especially the unfilled desires in your family. Know that they don’t have to be your desires. You don’t have to compensate for my failures or your grandparents’s failures
You don’t have many family members so make and choose your own family
Never ever you think you are not good enough and immediately cut loose from anyone who gives you the feeling you’re not good enough
Explore eastern philosophies
Socialize and go to and organize many parties in your youth
Find a sport and a form of exercise you love and get a lot of movement very regularly
Avoid sugar, alcohol, sigarettes…
Sing your own song. Listen to your heart and have the courage to follow it
Know that anything can be learned (and also unlearned) as long you go about it in a systematic way