This is a Dutch lady. I randomly found her on Instagram and I forgot her name. According to me she puts any Hollywood celebrity to shame, and she’s no exception. When I walk around in the Netherlands I spot women like this all the time. They are gorgeous. They’re also very intelligent and quite extravert and chatty. They can be very direct and assertive which can come as a shock to men from countries where gender roles are more traditional.
As for the men, when I walk around in the Netherlands I have a hard time not thinking of myself as an unattractive dwarf. They are very tall, slender and usually have bright facial expressions and a very vibrant energy, just like the women.
I’m from Flanders myself, I speak Dutch, but when it comes to my northern neighbours, I kinda feel like Flemish people are the slightly stunted branch of the Dutch family, whereas the people from the Netherlands are like in magical place where everything went a lot better, genetically speaking.
PS What an incredibly beautiful woman this is. I rarely store pictures of random women on my ipad, but this one knocked the air out of my lungs. If I wasn’t married to an equally stunning Slovak lady, I’d be writing her poems and sending her flowers, tons of mesmerizing Dutch tullips.
This was one of the sillier questions on Quora.

I’ve never thought that Dutch people were ugly, and that woman is beautiful!
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No idea who invents a question like that. Yes, that woman is so beautiful it’s painful to look at her… Most beautiful sight in the world
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It is a very weird question, I personally have seen many attractive people throughout the Nethelands!
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Do you live there currently?
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Not at the moment sadly
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Great that you were there, must have been an amazing experience
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Are you in Jamaica?
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Would you like to guest blog on PEP about your experience in Holland?
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Yeah, I’ve been quite a few times to Rotterdam, and Amsterdam. Also, have some friends who live in other cities. I should get back there sometime this year!
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No, London right now.
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I would be more than happy to do that, what sort of perspective would you like?
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The five things you loved the most about the netherlands
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Sure, i’ll get a first draft to you in the next two weeks 🙂
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Excellent
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I like your post about the guy who unmatched on tinder.
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That was another writer but I’ll pass on the message 🙂
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I’m not sure if you’ve noticed we’re a consortium
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Makes sense now. Who would ever match you?!
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Didn’t notice. How did you start? Or all that info is on the site?
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We grew out of a group of students from a university in the midlands, we then put out calls for other writers and now we’ve grown! Whilst most of out writers are based in the UK, we have regular contributors based in Pakistan, the UKSA, and Portugal. How did you begin?
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Hahaha who knows 🙂
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and I meant who would ever UNmatch you
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Haha oh. I’ve been unmatched, for my views, position on casual sex, but I don’t get down about that. How has your experience with online dating been?
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My wife allows me many things, but one rule she has is that I can’t use Tinder, she thinks it’s too easy and a coward’s approach to dating. When I had it before I had lots of dates, but never with women I really liked. I agree with people like James Marshall, it’s no good, especially for men it bites. As men we should just immediately go after the women we really like in real life. But to meet tons of people it’s sort of ok, and when you match and talk a bit, it goes fast, the women do take a lot of initiative. What about you?
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This site used to be called differently, but I forgot what. If you scroll all the way to the beginning, if you would ever find the time, you would see that it was about… dating. The first posts are about 26 women, named from A to A. You can find it more easily at http://www.eroticstories4her.wordpress.com
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Funny, we grew from the student magazine of the slavic department at the university of Gent. Until 2016 our posts were mostly in Dutch
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Yeah, I have to share your wife’s opinion! Tinder became too much of a game for me. I met some men are fantastic but sadly they didn’t seem like they would make for great long term partners. Both of my long term partners I met in real life so I’m not sure if maybe I don’t work well with online dating.
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I don’t know any married couple that met online. It probably happens from time to time, but I’ve never met anybody. People usually are nothing like their profile in real life, so you end up matching with a fantasy, until you decide to meet in real life. As an expat it’s a nice tool to chat with native speakers 🙂
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https://eroticstories4her.wordpress.com/2016/07/22/my-female-alphabet-soraya/ oh myyyyyyyyyy >.<
Yes, it is very different. But interesting to explore a male perspective 🙂 followed!
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Why did you switch to English? (I’m not mad because I can read everything easily)
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Me neither,. Yeah I agree, and it’s little things the way they smell, their quirky smile, funny jokes. Even when I’ve been abroad mostly met people out at organisations, it just hasn’t enlightened my life the way it poses to.
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What specifically do you like about Soraya? You can find two pictures of the real Soraya here: https://projectauthenticity.org/2018/03/23/how-to-get-a-girlfriend/
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Not everyone of us speaks Dutch, and even Dutch people said they liked our English posts better than the Dutch ones….
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I have the same experience, the vibe of meeting someone in person is so very different from seeing a picture or even a video online and read some stuff in their profile that they put there to try and impress. One of the easiest ways to be find someone is to be active in some local organization that has regular events. Other than that it helps to approach strangers you find very attractive, just anywhere, in public. A little trick: if you ask out a woman in front of a flower shop, she’s three times more likely to say yes, because she’s subconciously influenced by the flower shop setting. From the book: presuasion (so not persuasion)
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It wasn’t necessarily liking her but recognising that you were quite selfless in this situation. You come across extremely empathetic in this article.
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Yeah, most of my Dutch friends speak perfect English. I was with my Dutch friend in Yerevan where he was told he was the stereotypical version of the ‘English man’. I had a lot to say hahaha
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100% ooh that’s very interesting, I’ve never approached a man in real life. But I did read a study about approaching an attractive person every day in real life and the tremendous effects it can have on getting over the fear of rejection. I’ve always wanted to try it!
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