Warning: This is in no ways a scientific article. These are ten of the most clear changes I observe every time I’m about three week into No Fap. If your experiences are similar, there could be science behind it that back up these observations, but I’m not a scientist. If you do look for the science behind this on the web, be careful about what you read online. Some sites have their own agenda for promoting No Fap. I write about it here, because I notice some clear changes, which could however be purely individual. Here goes:
- I get out of bed much earlier and a lot easier.
- I have no trouble making eye contact with women on the street and actively seek it. I don’t do anything with this, but if I were single it would definitely be easier or even an imperative must to approach women I find attractive after several weeks of No Fap.
- My ambition remains the same in intensity, but I feel less doubtful about achieving something big.
- There’s definitely more action between me and my significant other and the quality of that action is better for both
- My anxiety levels are lower or when anxiety arises I have less trouble dismissing it
- My drive to have contact, especially with women, is a lot bigger
- I read more and faster…
- I have a bit more ideas
- I feel more determination, with a slightly aggressive twist
- I think a lot more about sex which can get very annoying if you have to focus on something else. If I manage to distract myself from this, I do get a lot of work done.