Ok, I am willing to explore this line of thinking. I have been repeatedly advised to look for something else than interacting as intimately and as pleasantly as possible with attractive women. It’s being around women is about the only thing that gives me energy.
If women have the happiness potential of 11 out of 10, like off the charts, how do other things compare?
I made a list on the bus.
Studying the United States of America. 6,5 out of 10.
Studying German or almost any other European language. 5 to 6 out of 10.
Playing complicated boardgames. 7 out of 10.
Studying psychology. 6,5 out of 10.
Running once am in shape. 7 to 8 out of 10.
Good food. 5 out of ten.
Teaching. 6 out of ten.
Learning Slovak. 6 out of ten.
Doing something nice for a nice person. 7 to 8 out of ten.
Writing, organizing and staging a play. 6,5 out of ten.
Interpreting. 6,5 out of ten.
Working with a client in therapy. 7 out of 10.
Being on stage. 7 to 8.
Talking to some topic about the war in Syria or something like that. 7 to 8.
Family time. 5 to 6 out of ten. Sometimes 7.
Writing. 7 out of 10.
There is probably more stuff that gets me to at least a 5 or a 6, but I can’t think of it right now.
They say ‘follow your bliss’, so perhaps I should follow it and create some kind of business model centered solely around making women happy. Some kind of happiness center strictly for women. The temple of women or something.
I have to drag myself out the door now because I start at 7 am. Going to teach Dutch in a temple of money.
Project authenticity 
There’s nothing wrong with you for loving to be around women, William if that makes you happy that is natural. Just maybe reconsider the energy of effort you exert to show your admiration for and of them. Or if I may be frank, maybe it is a turn on for you, simply. But, just be careful of how you demonstrate that need to “create some kind of business model centered solely around making women happy.”
Being repeatedly told is also a constant whisper before the yell.
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P.S. Just make sure that all off your happiness is not spent in one place( only women, intimately ) like money. Spend it in different shops and services.
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Good points…
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Am working on it. I wasn’t always like this, I wasn’t always depressed and I had entirely different obsessions in the past. Slovakia has something to do with it as well. In Belgium there are almost no women who have such a profound effect on me as the women here. Here I see as many wildly attractive women in one hour spent walking in the city center as in two or three whole years spent in Belgium. I wouldn’t say they are THAT beautiful, but something very specific about them triggers something very strong in me. I think it’s because they look so challenging.
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I agree the visualizations are different from where I’ve come from, as well. The pride in appearance to a reasonable degree, is new for me too. Their pure femininity encourages me to appear and present myself gentlemanly and not thuggish, brutish. Still I am careful around women. They are smarter than they let on and men like to think we know a lot more. The fact they women can allow a man to think he is right most of the time without losing any their womanly pride speaks volumes. She knows that to even correct a man at times brings out the “boy” in him. They can go along with this for years; until she gets tired of our ego being bigger than our brain.
As men we sometimes think that if we advertise or brag on a certain intimate talent or gift we have, that women will just run to us screaming.
So, love them, praise them, worship them, bow to them, but do it all carefully with a side eye.
No matter how much you love them, man. If there is a child involved and they are forced to choose. They will NOT choose the man. If you make a perceived wrong move or action all love will be lost, instantly.
The biggest fear of men across the world is that women won’t need them/us in the future, but men admittedly or not need women as we did our mothers.
I still love the website as it invokes ideas and thoughts deeper than a surface level.
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I always present myself as dumber than they are, very modest, let them feel super comfortable around me and let them do anything they want, usually they like this as it’s something entirely different from what they are used to and it’s fairly genuine
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Recently I’ve rediscovered dancing as a very effective antidepressant. 🙂
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With women?
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Come and show me then. I have a long break just now. What do you like to drink?
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I’m not such a good dancer that I would be interesting to look at :), but I can recommend it as an enjoyable leisure activity. Especially when the music is good.
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Let me be the judge of that
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LMFAO; Such a flirt, man. I love it. Always be true to you.
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Am glad I could make you laugh 🙂
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^_^
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I think that if I could dance it would have a positive effect for sure, but I really can t dance, my legs refuse to do what my brain says and it takes me so much effort and I feel so awkward doing it that there s no fun in it at all for me, it’s annoying to plod along doing something you know you are not good at. I think for me to be happy I would probably have to move to a different country, but I don’t want to go through that again. When am old I will move. Maybe to Germany or something or maybe the UK or perhaps Spain. Some place where the women are easier to talk to and don’t demand that almost all initiative is taken by the man. The Netherlands would be fine too, but Dutch is no challenge, so I’d be bored there. I saw a very attractive receptionist today, who has a very graceful walk and a very mischieveous smile, but apart from complimenting her am just too afraid of having an other of those one sided conversations that I never bother to ask her name. But I should, because once Slovak women open up there s no stopping them. Will have breakfast with one next week now that the ice is broken. This country and its women is heaven and hell to me
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I agree that dancing might not be for everyone. It just made me happy the other day so I mentioned it. But in general, I believe that positive effects of sports on emotional well-being are still understated.
I think it is not easy to get close to someone (a man or a woman) in general. Even when it comes to friendships, not only romance. So I think it’s quite a big expectation. Maybe it would be easier in a different country. Not sure. I like what you wrote in your other articles about appreciating the seemingly little things in life and the company of people who have already become dear to us.
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when am alone with someone I get close to them very easily, especially women, but guys as well.
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