1. Don’t stand for anything. Don’t defend your values, opinions or goals. Adopt those of others.

2. Try to please everybody

3. Try to flatter everyone you meet

4. Don’t respect your own limits and boundaries. Say yes to everything

5. Explain your actions to anybody who criticizes or comments on what you’re doing

6. Always depend on the advice of others, and not on your gut feeling

7. Always play the game of life by other people’s rules

8. Constantly compare yourself to others, and evaluate your life by their standards

9. Have no greater goal in life, no big ‘why’, have nothing to believe in

10. Surround yourself with people who don’t clap when you are succesful