Iranian women are among the best educated in the world and often speak multiple languages and have read extensively. But yes, American Karens know the menu at Starbucks, so they can get upset when the staff gets their order a teensy weensy bit wrong.
Behind closed doors everything is possible in Iran. Persian culture is poetic, sensual, subtle, refined and passionate to a degree flat, loud, boisterous, numbing, coarse American culture cannot fathom. Yes, many Iranians drink alcohol. Apart from Christian minorities nobody can legally produce wine, but, for example, Dr. Patrick Ringgenberg, a Swiss expert on Iran, says he only started drinking in Iran cause he didn’t want to be the only one not drinking at parties. He’s met Iranians with impressive whiskey collections.
And is it really a mark of a great society that alcohol is widely produced? Western countries see a dramatic increase of alcohol related emergencies every weekend. Iran had a very long tradition in wine making and it’s one of the oldest civilizations to do so. Yes, it’s mostly illegal since 1979, but the US had its own flirtation with prohibition not so long ago. Meanwhile US society is so ruined when it comes to upward social mobility, the circumstances needed to have healthy childhoods and strong family ties and other opportunities that millions turn to a wide variety of illegal chemical substances to numb the existential angst and pain.
Poetry features heavily in Iranian culture, even in every day life. I’ve been told that Iranians will sometimes make the last word of a sentence randomly rhyme. Someone will say deracht meracht for example, with deracht meaning tree and meracht added randomly. Many Iranians can recite poetry and philosophy. Americans will invoke the constitution without ever having read the document.

And if you want to find crazy religious fanatics you’ll find some of the worst one running the US army. Real nutters who believe Jews must go to Israel so Jesus can return to earth setting off an apocalypse.

Given that Israel is arguably the country most likely to use nuclear weapons they may get their wish minus the Jesus doing a comeback bit.

Fun note, Farsi has two words for a fart, one for a loud one and one for a silent one, choz and guz, which are also insults. You guess which one someone like Trump is, a loud one or a quiet one. Certainly one who created an embarassing stink for himself when he primitively thought killing the guy who put a ban Iran developping nuclear weapons was the cool thing to do.