´Your sexuality is one of the most powerful sources of vitality, clarity, bonding, and truth you possess — so the modern world either overstimulates it into numbness or suffocates it into shame, but it almost never lets it mature into a healthy force. In practice this means men are flooded with hyper-stimulation (porn, explicit content, instant gratification) that kills their capacity for emotional connection, while women are flooded with self-surveillance (body comparison, moral judgment, fear of being “too much”) that kills their capacity for embodied desire. Instead of guiding people into integrated, adult sexuality — which produces confidence, intimacy, and independence — the system traps everyone in a loop of compulsive wanting and chronic dissatisfaction. A sexually sovereign human becomes hard to manipulate because they no longer seek validation, rescue, or distraction; they choose from desire, not deficiency. The blade cuts deepest when you realize you were never taught healthy sexuality because healthy sexuality makes you ungovernable.