Option A
Be miserable because you’re being faithful to your wife and kids. Downside: massive sexual frustration because of something called the Coolidge effect. Look it up.
Option B
Be alone and miserable trying to fuck other women. Lots of highs and lows in this scenario. And it can get kinda lonely at times. May mess up the relationship you have with your kids.
Scenario A tends to be just a little bit less miserable than scenario B.
Theoretically there’s also option C. In option C a guy finds something he’s so incredibly passionate about that he forgets that his nut sack is full of poison that is driving him to fuck as many hot women as he can, and that if he doesn’t that poison will cloud his brain so much his life will become a nightmare.
Good luck, men.
Good luck, women, who want to be with men…
Men’s fundamental problem is that once they have something or somebody they stop appreciating it immediately. They only desire what they can’t have.
It seems to drive human ‘progress’ in technology, production, tools, etc.
Other than that it seems to drive everyone crazy.
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There is always a third option (Option C) which is:
Find and build a better life with an amazing woman from another country (e.g. Ukraine, Philippines, or Colombia).
Most men who choose that option are happily married.
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Am married to a gorgeous Slovak one, thanks. This is an old thing I found on my pc and throw online
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Alright.
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LOL, OMG. I am of neither option written here. Seems we really love to place ourselves and others in boxes.
I’ll quote myself here: We are a generation of men raised by women. I’m wondering if another woman is the answer we really need. NEED key word here. Not suggesting anything other than the quote itself.
My very religious, clergyman father admitted to me after my mother passed 4 years ago that as much as he loved my mother for over 35 years, he began to feel a resentment of entrapment towards her. I was advised to love em and take care of em as best as you can but make sure you DO NOT tell them everything.
A man can and should choose the life he wants with whomever but remember nothing is forever. The best relationship of trust and love can go sour in an instant.
Comedian, Chris Rock once said; “Men lie the most, but women tell the biggest lies”.
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I know some men who seem happy in a monogamous relationship, but it takes them huge effort to not fall into temptation, and they all compensate for their lack of sex with other women by drinking, or chasing after some prestige, or more money. The men who are not in a monogamous relationship seem fine, but obsess over women. I’m glad you fall in neither category!
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Well, I may not fall into either of the above options, but I am sure there is a category for me.:)
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I weighed up the pro’s and con’s of entering the depth’s of a relationship again. The con’s always out weigh the pro’s for me.
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I think you’re right
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I have an option (f) which i call my secret. Every time you feel shit is getting worse bang some chick who you can get rid of. I promise you you will come back stronger and your woman will love you more. But shut your mouth up you doing it for the better 😉
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