You know what they say. Once you go Slovak you never go back.
And there are good reasons for this:
- They are incredibly loyal
- They will tolerate many things
- Guys really have to completely ruin the connection before they will give up on their man
- They work hard
- They are great home makers
- They are cheerful and fun-loving
- Although traditional in many ways, and certainly not a fan of polygamy or threesomes, they will do pretty much anything in bed once they love a guy
- They are beautiful
- Even if the less physically fortunate have such a strong feminine charm that they almost all of them are attractive
- They don’t go crazy with money, they aren’t spendthrifts
- They need only normal things to be happy, they aren’t all that materialistic and tend to derive their happiness from their relationships, family, friends, work, home, hobbies
- Most of them enjoy cooking and baking
- They love fun
- They are extremely family oriented and a relationship is usually all about having babies and raising children
- They tend to leave mind games aside and tend to easily voice what they want
- They are rather dominant and have clear expectations, but are rarely the jealous type, nor are they aggressive
- Some of those with poor unbringing could be verbally violent, but these tend to be the exceptions
- Especially the women in Bratislava are constantly trying to learn new things and to improve their situation. Only those with a strong village mentality or those who are heavily influenced by their non-ambitious parents will not constantly try to show initiative
- They often love unconditionally
- They push you to grow
- They don’t complain and are not high maintenance
- They are traditional which comes with the advantage that they have clear expectations which makes it easier to do what makes them happy
- They have an irresistible feminine charm that keeps a guy longing for them
- You’d have to be a particularly selfish douchebag to wreck a relationship with a Slovak woman that has chosen you
I am an American man in his early 30s who had been fortunate to spend one full year in Prague on a work holiday.
As an American from the Midwest, I had experienced a culture shock when I first came to Czech Republic.
In comparison to the Midwest, I noticed that on average, Europeans are more materialistic, more competitive, and more overworked.
For example, Midwestern Americans tend to be more laid back, and much more interested in classical music and in classic art and literature. Europeans under 50 are too busy competing for jobs and working to find time for this.
After traveling around Czech Republic and most of Central Europe, I realized that this trend applies across the board: American people under 50 tend to have more refined tastes and more interest in high arts than Europeans.
I noticed to there is a greater disparity between the wealthy and the poor in Europe in comparison to the Midwestern region in the United States. Majority of USA seems more egalitarian in comparison to most Europe.
The most striking example of this European class disparity is Wenceslas Square in Prague. You see homeless, drunks, drug addicts, drug peddlers, unemployed middle aged and older men side by side with extremely wealthy tourists, oligarchs, renowned businessmen, etc… There are overpriced hotels such as Hotel Europa, upscale restaurants, casinos, etc side by side with homeless men kneeling down.
You would not see this in Chicago or Milwaukee or Minneapolis or Saint Paul in USA.
The lack of interest in high culture in general population under 50 and the rather high economic disparity between the wealthy and the poor have a great impact on the psychology of Czech women (and Slovak women by extension, and young women of Europe in general). And these factors affect their tastes in men.
You mentioned in an earlier blog post that Slovak women require their man to be sociopathic troglodyte with steroidal muscles and visible tattoos and with lots of money as well.
In my year spent in Prague, I met one 24 year old Slovak woman. She criticized me for not having tattoos and not using steroids to grow muscles. She criticized me because I like going to art museums and Rudolfinum events in Prague. According to her, I was “not a real man”. I found this type of very primitive and narrow-minded stereotypical thinking prevalent among Czech and Slovak women, and European women in general.
In general, American women tend to be much less primitive in their requirements for men and in their tastes in men. This is largely in part due to USA economy being more progressive and egalitarian (at least for now, unless our current administration signs in laws that favor the wealthy). And also due to education being much more valued in USA than in Europe. (According to current statistics, USA has the highest percentage of higher educated people)
There are many Slovak women in Prague – perhaps 9-10% of the female population of the city. And there is also a similar percentage of Slovak women in the Moravian region of the Czech Republic. There are some Moravians who would want Czech Republic and Slovakia to reunite.
In my year spent in Prague, I visited Karlovy Vary, Plzen, Ceske Budejovice, Cesky Krumlov, Kutna Hora, Olomouc, Brno, Kromeriz, Lednice-Valtice castle complex in Czech Republic and Bratislava and Nitra in Slovakia. Also, I visited Wroclaw and Krakow in Poland, and found their culture to be very similar.
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We drew a lot of heat for that article you refer too, although a lot of is simply true, so thanks for confirming that we were not hallucinating. I do meet a different sort of Slovak women, my wife, her sister, her mum, and several Slovak female friends included, the type of women you describe and that the other post described also exists, am not sure if it’s the majority, but it’s certainly the most visible part of the female population as they tend to seek attention and dress to get stared at. As to education, the people I know are relatively well educated, especially my Belgian friends. What’s true is that people in Europe tend to focus on their career, which usually means slaving away at some job, they tend not to read much. The Americans I’ve met were not necessarily that different I must say, though they did enjoy talking about politics, far, far more than Europeans. Europeans seem to simply want to block out politics as though it’s not a part of their life. Other than that I would like to add that Belgium and the Netherlands are very different from Eastern Europe and that I had very different experiences there. After the fall of communism a tiny elite managed to grab all the wealth here in Eastern Europe. I enjoyed your comment so much that I would like to repost it as a blogpost, signed by Abel, would that be ok?
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Hi William,
I have more observations from my life in Prague in 2016 and from my trips around Czech Republic and Slovakia.
There are more reasons why European women (and women from Former USSR) have such harsh requirements in men that they date. I would like to share these reasons with you by email. I also have some ideas on game and PUA.
I visited Amsterdam and Utrecht this March and I have some things to share with you too.
If you consider my observations accurate and complete, then you can share this blogpost. But my observations are just observations from the point of view of one person, and may not accurately describe the reality. My own experiences may greatly differ from those of other people. But if you agree with my comment, then you can post it.
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Hi Abel, you can email me at rigoreobstinato@hotmail.com, am very interested. I will notify you before we turn your comments into a separate blog post
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As a Slovak woman I can tell that these observations are spot on. Well done! I am one of the underperformers in cooking and baking and I certainly often feel like an oddity.
I would say that the greatest strength of Slovak women (or maybe of women in general?) is that they are very creative and very wise and down to earth at the same time. I only wish that Slovak women had more confidence in general, then they would be unstoppable.
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They would indeed be unstoppable. They look very confident, but they aren’t, not on the inside. It’s a pity that lots of men don’t value them, and tend to let them become their mothers, and not their wives, which destroys the sexual dynamic, which destroys the relationship. Lately I’ve met a lot of Slovak women who are in their late thirties, have children, and were abandoned by their husbands when those found a younger woman…
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Hi Abel, am still looking forward to your email!
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